Looking back at when we entered the lifestyle I recall being overwhelmed by so many new experiences. I also remember one major thing that confused us completely were all of the various terms used and how so many people gave different meanings to them. For the newbie entering the world of swingers and the lifestyle you can easily find yourself …

Who is a Swinger and what is Swinging? Or better yet what is the Lifestyle and how do Swingers fit in? Most people who are unaware of the lifestyle and what it entails have the vision of the old days of swinging. The perception was people would show up at a house and throw their keys into a bowl to …

We were out having a candle lit dinner and I am wearing a little white dress and red heels; you are wearing black dress pants and a white dress shirt open at the collar,both of us looking very sexy and getting lots of looks. We are seated in a corner booth, we are talking and flirting,not caring about the time.. …

Boring. What a freaking boring night to be stuck at home. With the rain and wind, the power is out and I am all alone. I think briefly of calling my wife for the fifth time but I know she is at a conference and probably won’t pick up. If she does, it will be a short and sweet conversation. …

The room was dark when he entered. His hands are bound before him and he is led by his mistress to the centre. There a single light revealed that his feet are also bound individually by rope and connected to his hands with just enough slack to allow for balance and a slight shuffle, hop. His ears are stopped by …

When I first got into the lifestyle I had no idea what I was doing. My husband and I separated because I wanted more in my life and he couldn’t give it to me. I was surprisingly innocent and had never even heard of the ‘lifestyle’. I now didn’t have a partner to navigate the confusing world of websites and …