30 day challenge

Are you satisfied? I mean fully completely satisfied? Or do you yearn to expand your sex life? One of the quickest and easiest ways how to make a girl squirt is to communicate more. Guys insert eye roll here. Check out these gay webcams right now and share if you like it. Read on if you’re serious about getting what you want out of life.

Effective Communication =Enrollment = Threesome (or whatever your fantasy is)

Wouldn’t it be awesome to have communication come easy and be effective? Let me offer a couple suggestions that will literally take your relationship to levels you can not imagine.

I call it the 30 day challenge. You choose a start date (choose today, there’s no time like the present) and begin. Share 3 things a day that turn you on or fantasies you dream about. Does that seem like a lot to you? Great! for some it will be. For some people you won’t even know what to share on day 2 – That’s awesome. Let me offer some advice on how to make this as smooth as possible.

The key is to bring awareness to all the things already occurring that ignite our passion and to introduce and share all the things that are possible! (This is the first step to getting your partner to consider doing that thing you’re too shy to ask for! Ya, you know the one).

#1 all turn ons count – yes all! So if it turns you on when your partner unloads the dishwasher (remember the love languages? Acts of service, physical touch, quality time, gifts, words of affirmation, that counts! Share it all. Your partner turns you on doing certain things and they don’t even know it. Start letting them know – it will make them feel warm and fuzzy and open to expansion.

#2 Share freely knowing you don’t have to take action on anything that scare the shit out of you. Slot all turn ons and fantasies into these categories:

A) That scares the shit out of me but thank you for sharing

B) I am on the fence about that, let’s keep it as pillow talk, I am not ready to turn it into reality just yet

C) Frig yes – bring it on, this is something I would love to discuss more and do! ~Take all things in this category and write them down. This is the list (and it will be long after 30 days) to work off of first…..I will blog again about how to transform A and B into C soon. (shoot me a message if I forget).

Bring everything to the table and create a free flowing month of discovery. Try not to get too attached to any one fantasy or turn on. Let your partner know how you feel in the moment (each moment is a new moment) and be open to discovering so many new things, so maybe you and your partner could use services as Zoom Escorts to fulfill that fantasy of a threesome someday.

We have all heard the saying ‘What you focus on expands’ right? This exercise will literally transform the way you relate to yourself and your partner! It will take a commitment on your part (you will need a daily reminder on your phone) but if you’re open, it will rock your world!

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Other amazing resources to inspire your Life and Lifestyle:

http://www.intothelifestyle.com/podcast/

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Rock on sexy friends XO

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