I hear the door close behind him.  He. has. arrived.  He is a stranger to me and I do not know what he looks like, feels like or smells like… yet.  I lay completely naked and blindfolded with a dark silk sash on the bed anticipating his arrival.  The stranger.  The anonymous stranger.  I feel his presence very close to me …

Ingredients: 1 oz Tequila (Top Shelf baby) .5 oz Gran Marnier 1 Lime Wedge Fleur de Sel (to taste)     Method: Pour Tequila and Gran Marnier in a shooter glass and then choose a spot on your partner’s body to sprinkle some salt… Lick Slowly. Drink a shot and bite into the lime wedge to suck the juice… repeat …

The lifestyle is an umbrella of endless possibilities! But I had no idea just what that meant from the outside looking in. To be honest I actually didn’t even know that after diving in and spending the first few years floundering. My husband and I played outside the box before we got married and then only a few times after …

Are you satisfied? I mean fully completely satisfied? Or do you yearn to expand your sex life? One of the quickest and easiest ways to transform your connection with your partner is to communicate more. Guys insert eye roll here. Read on if you’re serious about getting what you want out of life. Effective Communication =Enrollment = Threesome (or whatever …

Check out Portia Lynn’s writing on consensual non-monogamy in the new blog: More Is Merrier http://moreismerrier.wordpress.com/ Portia’s blog links personal experience and academic research on various aspects of the lifestyle with the intention of stimulating discussion and increasing awareness. Portia writes: I have started this blog as a way to share my experiences and insights. These include personal experiences as a …

If you have yet to attend a lifestyle event or club in Europe you need to add it to your bucket list! The level of openness and acceptance that is found in Europe compared to Canada and the United States is amazingly different. The entire culture around sex and the openness to experiencing new and exciting things seems to be …