We are all by nature, visual learners. Pair that with a fascination to see how other people live and love it’s no wonder the lifestyle is so popular. It’s only natural to have a healthy curiosity about how it all works. There are so many things we all feel and experience and we don’t share. But by sharing I believe …

The room was dark when he entered. His hands are bound before him and he is led by his mistress to the centre. There a single light revealed that his feet are also bound individually by rope and connected to his hands with just enough slack to allow for balance and a slight shuffle, hop. His ears are stopped by …

What makes a good Theme? So I am sitting around musing about this and searching the internet for the latest and greatest of lifestyle party themes.  You know toga, back to school etc.  What themes work and which do not.  Oh I am sure there are some themes that just should not go; however, there are still a few worth …

Its your first swingers party and you have no clue what to wear… Everyone experiences this so here are some suggestions from what we have learned over the years. We hear these questions all the time; Do we dress like any other outing or do we dress to impress or do you let it all hang out? Here are some …

We receive numerous emails asking some of the same questions; Is swinging safe? How do I get into swinging? I want to explore the lifestyle but am not sure how to approach my partner Can you give a new couple pointers on what to expect? In short there is no right answer to any of these questions but I am …