What makes a good Theme?

So I am sitting around musing about this and searching the internet for the latest and greatest of lifestyle party themes.  You know toga, back to school etc.  What themes work and which do not.  Oh I am sure there are some themes that just should not go; however, there are still a few worth trying.  Now you could even break this down a little more.  What are the top Club themes and what are the top home themes.  Are they the same?  Or are there ones that work better at home. 

So looking around the interweb there are a few common themes.  Ones that would work either way, club or home.

So an easy list of themes

New Years


Summer (this one best done in summer but could be done in the winter with enough heaters)


Back to School (we all know it means school girl)

But what themes work best in a club?

Black Light Party. 

The first on my list of best in club parties would be a Black Light party.  Let the club buy out Walmart of all the black lights.  Rhythmic sounds, UV light glowing bodies.  Cool imagery that will get stuck in your head.   

Another theme that I think that works best in a club is the old fashioned Orgy.  Now why you say?  This one seems like an easy home party? 

Well my reasoning is of the next morning factor.  The clubs are better suited to clean it up.  Take for example the “Latest Craze”.  Our lovely ladies are getting comfortable with themselves and are opening up and allowing themselves to squirt.  That produces a lot of laundry.  Not to mention the added clean up if the party goes well.  In a mass of sweaty bodies not everything makes it were it is supposed to. 

Now of course I could end up with a huge list of party ideas.  Of course who doesn’t have a huge list.  After all don’t all Swingers have a room dedicated to their lifestyle attire?  What I am looking for is to be able to compile a top twenty list of your fav. Parties!  So add a comment and let’s see if can come up with the Ultimate Swingers theme list. 


The Confused Cooler.  (got the name from a name spinner what ya think?)

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