Dating and hook up sites are dime a dozen these days and that is largely due to the fact that people are horny and just plain bored. These types of sites are typically over run by single males looking for a quick hook up and of those single males I would suspect a good portion are cheating on their much better half.
I’ve held memberships on most “big name” sites and found them lacking due to this and that is why a Swingers Social Community makes for a better fit for real couples and the proverbial Unicorns and Centaurs.
Wait… Unicorns and Centaurs? I thought I was going to find my way into becoming a lifestyler not a mythical creature! Don’t worry you are and I will be sure to post later on about all the unique terminology that abounds in the lifestyle. For now think of Unicorns as single ladies who are lifestyle savvy and Centaurs as being the male counterpart. The key point is good ones (those that are not just available but know what they want and understand how they fit into the lifestyle) are hard to find so they have taken on the persona of being mythical creatures… but don’t worry they do exist!
So what makes a community on the internet social? Most of us have spent time on Facebook and see how you can not just browse who else is on their but also interact with them and get to know more about who they. Well the same can be said for a swingers website and the good sites out there are striving to do just that. Social connectivity takes away a good portion of the “risk” due to the fact that now you can get to know and befriend people before taking the next step. Good social communities have forums, chat and various other forms of getting to know people and finding out more then just the writing on their profile. You can see who they know, events they attend and get a deeper understanding of what they want from the lifestyle. Height, weight and hair color aren’t enough these days as swingers evolve into lifestylers!
So really it comes down to what you want to get out of your journey into the lifestyle and hopefully we can help you in that decision!