Dating and hook up sites are dime a dozen these days and that is largely due to the fact that people are horny and just plain bored. These types of sites are typically over run by single males looking for a quick hook up and of those single males I would suspect a good portion are cheating on their much better half.

I’ve held memberships on most “big name” sites and found them lacking due to this and that is why a Swingers Social Community makes for a better fit for real couples and the proverbial Unicorns and Centaurs.

Wait… Unicorns and Centaurs? I thought I was going to find my way into becoming a lifestyler not a mythical creature! Don’t worry you are and I will be sure to post later on about all the unique terminology that abounds in the lifestyle. For now think of Unicorns as single ladies who are lifestyle savvy and Centaurs as being the male counterpart. The key point is good ones (those that are not just available but know what they want and understand how they fit into the lifestyle) are hard to find so they have taken on the persona of being mythical creatures… but don’t worry they do exist!

So what makes a community on the internet social? Most of us have spent time on Facebook and see how you can not just browse who else is on their but also interact with them and get to know more about who they. Well the same can be said for a swingers website and the good sites out there are striving to do just that. Social connectivity takes away a good portion of the “risk” due to the fact that now you can get to know and befriend people before taking the next step. Good social communities have forums, chat and various other forms of getting to know people and finding out more then just the writing on their profile. You can see who they know, events they attend and get a deeper understanding of what they want from the lifestyle. Height, weight and hair color aren’t enough these days as swingers evolve into lifestylers!

So really it comes down to what you want to get out of your journey into the lifestyle and hopefully we can help you in that decision!



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  1. Jeffery Erazmus

    March 11, 2012 at 2:06 pm

    I’m still learning from you, as I’m improving myself. I definitely enjoy reading everything that is posted on your blog.Keep the tips coming. I loved it!


    • Ichall

      August 2, 2012 at 11:24 pm

      It’s def hard, currently in a year and 3 mnohts online long-distance relationship. I think being smart is key, it takes longer to get to know someone online then it does in person. You need to know the ins and outs of that person before you agree to meet up in person. If you do agree to meet make it in a public place and make sure that if you can’t bring someone with you, you NEED to tell someone (possibly more than one person) where you’re going to be, who your meeting, what time and how long your planning to stay with them. Just use your head when it comes to dating someone you met online. If something doesn’t seem right don’t do it.


      • Rafael

        August 30, 2012 at 6:08 am

        Thats rough.Ive been there (and still am currently). What me and my pantrer do is stick with the small things.Every night before bed we call eachother or leave a msg during the day just to see how the other one is doing.It never hurts to tell them how much they mean to you or that your thinking of them.Also, if its possible, talk about when your going to be back together or try and make a plan.It makes working seem easier when you know you’ll see the other person again.Have faith that everything will work out!Good luck.


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