Sexy couple dressed for a theme party

Its your first swingers party and you have no clue what to wear…

Everyone experiences this so here are some suggestions from what we have learned over the years.

Sexy couple dressed for a theme partyWe hear these questions all the time; Do we dress like any other outing or do we dress to impress or do you let it all hang out? Here are some thoughts to help you decide what is best for you from our experience.

We try to gauge our outfits (speaking on behalf of both parts of our relationship here ) on a few different criteria when we are attending a lifestyle swingers event. If the party is themed choosing an outfit is simple as we always try to get into the spirit of the night by dressing the part. For example if its a toga party – wear a toga!

A meet and greet depends on the venue; if its a public bar or place we dress sexy but with respect for the general public. If the party is being held at a lifestyle club we tend to show more skin but still convey a level of playful seduction.

When it comes to a swingers lifestyle party which is not a theme night (many are) we dress to impress and usually find we are down to lingerie fairly early in the night as things start to get sexier.

We have seen and heard of many people asking if walking around a swingers party naked is acceptable and we have always thought sure as long as it is within the club rules and you are comfortable with it. On some hot summer nights its the only way to cool down as well!

There are also some things not to wear to a lifestyle swingers party as well (unless the theme asks for it):

  • Sweat pants
  • work clothes (ie torn and dirty jeans)
  • Athletic wear

Hope this little blog helps you come to some decisions, feel free to comment or if you have more questions join the discussion threads on ITL –


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