Aff Lie

Regardless of whether or not you are new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger we have all encountered it – Swingers websites that blatantly lie about what they are or who actually uses them.

I am not talking about the occasional out of proportion claim of membership size or not being able to regulate fully that members only have one account at a time. What I am referring to is the complete disregard for the lifestyle person looking for a resource and being lured in by a complete and utter lie. The lifestyle is built on open communication, honesty and integrity so needless to say this rubs me the wrong way – BIG TIME.

Have a look a the photo below…

Aff Lie
The blatant lies AFF, makes on a daily basis.

OK as of 2011 according to google public data Canada had a TOTAL population of 34,482,779 – As you can see by the above screen shot there are 42+ Million members in Canada alone that use AFF…. ummmm really??? And this is only the tip of the iceberg with this site; did you know that they have a large network of sites setup just to drive traffic to them, these sites include: SeniorFriendfinder,,,, and (yes the last one is a religious dating site) I bet the members on BigChurch would leave in droves if they knew their usage and traffic was being used for a big porn machine disguised as a swingers dating site. It goes much deeper with known fake members being managed by staff, scams and phishing techniques and on and on the list goes.

So a final word of advice – find a site you can trust and stay away from big box sites that are in it for profit and not for community or connection. If a site has a claim of being #1 or anything else; simply they are not and should be avoided. The easiest way to see if a site truly does get traffic and is popular is via site usage analytics – look for user time online, pages viewed and a low bounce rate (single page hit which indicated bought traffic)

Swingers stats
Swinger site analytics from Alexa

Hope this saves a few the agony (and costs) of joining the wrong swingers site!



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  1. Backwoods

    August 31, 2013 at 1:36 pm

    I am wondering why your article does not include swinging heaven?


    • Sensual Admin

      September 1, 2013 at 10:42 am

      Swinging Heaven – do they apply the same bait tactics?


      • J&M

        September 1, 2013 at 12:00 pm

        YES they do!! they fly under the .ca and as they are a UK based company?
        to use the .ca you must be Canadian or reside in Canada full time..
        link removed try that.. 100% Canadian and run by Canadians… BUT of course you like to censor other websites… scared of the competition..

        now some one like YOU!!! sneak around sitting other websites because your one is going in reverse and you can not deal with it!!!!



        • Sensual Admin

          September 30, 2013 at 4:55 am

          Wow – vent much?

          If you need to reside in Canada to obtain a .ca extension then I guess they do have Canadian roots don’t they. Or for some reason they are pretending to have them. Regardless the article was written as is and maybe in the future this will warrant a new one.


          • nomad

            October 9, 2013 at 2:52 am

            .ca and .uk are not the only ones Swinging Heaven use, I’ve come across .za and .au It would appear they use domain names that reflect the country they operate in.

            As for AFF, been there an least said the better.

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