Regardless of whether or not you are new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger we have all encountered it – Swingers websites that blatantly lie about what they are or who actually uses them.
I am not talking about the occasional out of proportion claim of membership size or not being able to regulate fully that members only have one account at a time. What I am referring to is the complete disregard for the lifestyle person looking for a resource and being lured in by a complete and utter lie. The lifestyle is built on open communication, honesty and integrity so needless to say this rubs me the wrong way – BIG TIME.
Have a look a the photo below…
OK as of 2011 according to google public data Canada had a TOTAL population of 34,482,779 – As you can see by the above screen shot there are 42+ Million members in Canada alone that use AFF…. ummmm really??? And this is only the tip of the iceberg with this site; did you know that they have a large network of sites setup just to drive traffic to them, these sites include: SeniorFriendfinder, Amigos.com, Passion.com, pornaddiction.com, Xmatch.com, Alt.com and BigChurch.com (yes the last one is a religious dating site) I bet the members on BigChurch would leave in droves if they knew their usage and traffic was being used for a big porn machine disguised as a swingers dating site. It goes much deeper with known fake members being managed by staff, scams and phishing techniques and on and on the list goes, I only trust the VR Porn Adjusted Just For Samsung because of this reason.
So a final word of advice – find a site you can trust and stay away from big box sites that are in it for profit and not for community or connection. If a site has a claim of being #1 or anything else; simply they are not and should be avoided. The easiest way to see if a site truly does get traffic and is popular is via site usage analytics – look for user time online, pages viewed and a low bounce rate (single page hit which indicated bought traffic)
Hope this saves a few the agony (and costs) of joining the wrong swingers site! Also, most of these sites like this some of the weed dealers are also selling in this site. Not just pure weed, but also bong and water pipe deals.